Digital Book World Conference – Day 2 (being anti-social while using social media)

by Marian Schembari on January 29, 2010

Usually, I can’t stand when people hunch over their computers and phones in the middle of real-live social situations. Not a hell of a lot makes me angrier if you pull out your cell phone and start typing away while I’m trying to actually talk to you.

Except if said social interaction is the Digital Book World conference.

Author Chris Kubica posted on the #dbw Twitter stream yesterday: “So at #dbw, what percent of the time are you spending making eye contact with people and what percent with your laptop/smartphone?” Which after reading I immediately looked up from my laptop to see mirror images of myself typing away. Apparently we at DBW are very good at multi-tasking. I know I heard every word. I think. In another tweet Kubica wrote, “Just remember: no tweets & pics of snacks & drinks. That’s the time to pocket the iPhone & use people skills.”

Part of me finds this depressing. I mean, a conference is for meeting people and socializing and awkwardly shaking hands. I recently posted about figuring out that I’m a wimp in groups of large people I don’t know, so maybe that’s my problem. I just didn’t have the cojones to meet enough people. On the other (and significantly larger) hand, this is kind of what DBW is all about. So many people not at this week’s event were following along with the constantly updated Twitter stream, asking questions and commenting how awesome it sounded. (It was.)

In what I assume – and seriously hope – was a joke, Alice Pope posted a photo of the boxed lunches we all received. Okay,so  there are many things both hilarious and wrong with this, but I eventually come back to the same conclusion: what is the point of social media if you can’t social with people who aren’t in your exact geographic location?

Editors, publicists, marketers and authors alike felt connected to conference, almost like they were there. This is despite their apparent cubicle containment. This is also thanks to the many publishing tweeps who furiously typed out the most important points of each panel, commentator and weird joke. None of this would have been possible without the multitasking hunchers sharing up-to-the-minute info on conference happenings. Meaning this post, by definition, is late.

I for one got a hell of a lot out of the conference and that’s a direct result of both the panels themselves and the running commentary of those in attendance.

Related posts:

  1. Digital Book World Conference – Day 1
  2. Book Review: “Social Media 101″ by Chris Brogan
  3. Do people understand the “social” part of “social media”?
  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/8374238916 Marian Schembari

    Being anti-social while using social media: Digital Book World Conference – Day 2 http://bit.ly/bGnSmf

  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/8374291785 Marian Schembari

    @ChrisKubica I mentioned your genius tweets in my #dbw follow up post today: http://bit.ly/bGnSmf

  • http://twitter.com/chriskubica/status/8376458474 Chris Kubica

    RT @marianschembari: @ChrisKubica I mentioned your genius tweets in my #dbw follow up post today: http://bit.ly/bGnSmf

  • Marian Schembari

    Being anti-social while using social media: Digital Book World Conference – Day 2 http://bit.ly/bGnSmf

  • http://twitter.com/pete_kistler/status/8401251132 Pete Kistler

    @marianschembari: Digital Book World Conference – Day 2 (being anti-social while using social media) http://bit.ly/bBKs0g

  • http://joannedemaio.blogspot.com/ Joanne

    Definitely the conference to be at, with all the trending toward digital books. It’s great how technology lets conferences like this expand beyond the walls of the building it’s held at.

  • http://joannedemaio.blogspot.com/ Joanne

    Definitely the conference to be at, with all the trending toward digital books. It’s great how technology lets conferences like this expand beyond the walls of the building it’s held at.

  • http://joannedemaio.blogspot.com/ Joanne

    Definitely the conference to be at, with all the trending toward digital books. It’s great how technology lets conferences like this expand beyond the walls of the building it’s held at.

  • http://isao.typepad.com/ Isao

    I bet someday peeping into one’s iPhone in a social situation will be treated the same as smoking-while-talking. Soon there will be “tweeting room” everywhere, sealed in transparent glass walls, crumped with people typing furiously into their tiny gadgets. And we enjoy watching them.

  • http://isao.typepad.com/ Isao

    I bet someday peeping into one’s iPhone in a social situation will be treated the same as smoking-while-talking. Soon there will be “tweeting room” everywhere, sealed in transparent glass walls, crumped with people typing furiously into their tiny gadgets. And we enjoy watching them.

  • http://isao.typepad.com Isao

    I bet someday peeping into one’s iPhone in a social situation will be treated the same as smoking-while-talking. Soon there will be “tweeting room” everywhere, sealed in transparent glass walls, crumped with people typing furiously into their tiny gadgets. And we enjoy watching them.

  • http://www.christinenegroni.com/ christine

    “What is the point of social media if you can’t social with people who aren’t in your exact geographic location?” Brilliant, yes precisely the point. Learning how to roll with the revolution is the challenge.

  • http://www.christinenegroni.com christine

    “What is the point of social media if you can’t social with people who aren’t in your exact geographic location?” Brilliant, yes precisely the point. Learning how to roll with the revolution is the challenge.

  • http://digitalbookworld.com/2010/digital-book-world-2010-link-roundup/ Digital Book World 2010: Link Roundup (updated) | Digital Book World

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