I’m relieving my stress by reading children’s books

by Marian Schembari on May 9, 2010

In my last post I whined about not getting enough sleep, spending too much time online “learning”, having too much on my plate and pretty much having zero life outside of my job. Instead of continuing to whine, however, I decided to actually do something about it by destressing at the end of the day rather than continuing my business education. I recently finished reading Gretchen Rubin’s The Happiness Project and she talks a bit about her love of children’s lit…

First of all, I thought it was just me. I mean, my entire devotion to publishing stems from the fact that all I did as a child was read. My first book was To Kill A Mockingbird and I was five. Books are in my blood.

My favorite thing about reading as a child was pretty much the same reason we all love reading – it takes us away. At the risk of sounding corny as hell, there’s something slightly more magical about reading at 10 than there is at 20. Why is that? Is it that so-called “childish innocence”? Or is it the quality of book? Books that don’t have complicated themes or disturbing scenes? Books that exist pretty much for the sheer pleasure of the story.

The books we read before bed matter

While writing my last post I realized that the books I was reading before bed weren’t helping my sleep problem. Despite copious amounts of sleep-inducing drugs, thoughts were running like mad inside my head. Plans for my business, post ideas, blogging tips, networking advice… It was turning me into that crazy lady who talks to herself on the train.

The problem was that I was reading books like Chris Brogan and Julien Smith’s Trust Agents. Tim Ferriss’ The 4-Hour Workweek. Gary Vaynerchuck’s Crush It! All fabulous books, to be sure, but not the lightest of bedtime reading. Even though I’m glad I read these books, I think I need to cool it for a while. And I bet I’ll get more done if I get the sleep I need rather than stressing myself out more by reading all the things I’m still not doing in my business.

So instead…

Instead I took my ass to the library and checked out all that children’s literature I never read. The classics I figured I “missed out on” because I didn’t read them as a kid. Not even realizing I’m still allowed to read them now. Here’s what I got:

Can you believe I'd never read this?

I also checked out Dealing with Dragons because that was my favorite series (even more than Narnia and before Potter) and for some idiotic reason I gave away my copies. I haven’t reread those books in years and my fingers are crossed I can still feel a little bit of that magic.

Oh, and here’s where you come in: What were your favorite children’s books? Because of the length of most of these guys I’m already done with Tollbooth and looking for my next fix. Some of my all-time favorites include:

So? What were yours? What books did you read over and over again that you absolutely must add to my growing pile of childhood to-reads (and subsequently help to save my sanity)?

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  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/13668022518 Marian Schembari

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  • http://danblank.com/ DanBlank

    Maria,
    You HAVE to read this post – one of the most amazing bloggers I've ever worked with did a poll & ranking of the top 100 children's novels of all time:

    http://www.schoollibraryjournal.com/blog/179000

    Click into each post, and she recaps why these books rule.
    Enjoy!
    -Dan

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  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Wow, this is AMAZING. Thank you Dan!

  • http://www.domesticsluttery.com Sian

    Rebecca's World by Terry Nation was my favourite book as a kid. It was the book that made me want to write and I read it over and over again. It's out of print, so I had to buy a copy on eBay. I took the day off when it arrived and curled up and reread it. That book makes me happy and if I'm having trouble writing, it reminds me why I ever picked up a pen in the first place. The book's worth a fair bit more than I paid for it six years ago too.

  • alexisgrant

    I LOVED Roald Dahl.

  • kwise321

    Oh my God! I LOVED Phantom Tollbooth and the Wrinkle in Time. And Dealing with Dragons–the whole series! For some reason, I was so amused by the chapter titles: “In which Cimorene…” does whatever and “In which a dragon, an egg, a princess, and a fairy godmother come together”… So great. I also loved “Little Women.” And if you're looking for de-stressing light reading after your children's lit revival, I totally recommend Eat, Pray, Love. I don't care who scorns me. I love that book.

    De-stress! Much love,
    Kate
    transatlanticsketches.com

  • sarahcarter

    I second anything by Road Dahl. My friend recently went to a “smell-o-vision” showing of the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory movie (the old one). Jealous.

    Also Edward Eager's Half Magic series, they are, of course, outdated now but simple and fun and very VERY British.

    And Judy Blume! Though I bet you've read alllll of her.

  • http://twitter.com/dbsalk David S

    It's never a bad idea to return to our inner child. Here are some of my favorites:

    The Pushcart War by Jean Merrill
    Johnny Tremain by Esther Forbes
    The Westing Game by Ellen Raskin
    Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
    Coraline by Neil Gaiman
    Eye of the Dragon by Stephen King*

    King has a rep for writing stories that will keep you up at night. This one is dark, but he wrote it for his daughter, who was 12 at the time. In my opinion, it's one of his best.

    Oh, and you know all the hype about the Percy Jackson series? It's well deserved.

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    You know, I was wondering about Percy Jackson. It has now been added to my list! Though I guess now with the movie it will be a bitch to get from the library!

    And I ADORED The Pushcart War — good call ;-)

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    OMG another Dealing With Dragons fan! I thought I was the only one but now 2 people our age have told me they adored the series too! Yippee!

    And who the fuck would scorn you for loving Eat, Pray, Love? It is, by far, the best book I've ever read. So. There.

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    VERY British is the best kind of British!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    It's books like that that remind me why I do what I do. I don't know Rebecca's World but I will hunt it down!

  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/13727811661 Marian Schembari

    What were your favorite books as a child?? Help add to my "De-stress List" http://bit.ly/92ooiL

  • http://twitter.com/dbsalk/status/13727908001 David B. Salkover

    RT @marianschembari: What were your favorite books as a child?? Help add to my "De-stress List" http://bit.ly/92ooiL

  • http://kentuckypress.wordpress.com/ Cameron Ludwick

    The Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler is, I think partially responsible for my Art History minor in college!

  • Julia_Costa

    Hi! The Fuse #8 list is great. You might want to check out the Puffin top 70 as well. (Percy Jackson gets a shout out!)

    http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/may/06/puf

    As far as my personal standbys, I still have the entire Anne of Green Gables set and I'm not afraid to read them. Good luck with the de-stressing.

  • http://www.domesticsluttery.com Sian

    You can curl up at mine and read it when you're in London :-)

  • http://www.jargonwriter.com Melissa Breau

    Hey Marian,

    Like you, reading was a big part of bedtime during my childhood. I learned to read on Tolkien's Lord of the Rings. I'd read the right-hand pages and my father would read the left-hand pages.

    I don't think I have any books to add to your list, but I agree that it's important to take yourself away by reading something that has no bearing on your actual life. That's part of why I do a book club in Brooklyn. There is a book that we read not that long ago that I'd highly recommend. It's not a children's book but it should accomplish a similar purpose. The book it Stoner, by John Williams. It's the greatest book you've never heard of. And no, it has nothing to do with weed.

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    I've never heard of it! But I get so excited when that happens to thanks for telling me about it!!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Anne of Green Gables is actually a series I NEVER read. It's weird how you sometimes miss out on the classics… Don't worry, the situation will be remedied.

  • babetteross

    I loved both Little House on the Prairie Series and Nancy Drew Series when I was kid.

  • http://stacyboyd.wordpress.com Stacy Boyd

    My two favorites as a kid were STARRING SALLY J. FREEDMAN AS HERSELF by Judy Blume and THE VELVET ROOM by Zilpha Keatley Snyder.

  • http://www.jargonwriter.com Melissa Breau

    Oh, BTW I also saw your profile piece in Real Simple. My copy came over the weekend and when pouring through it last night there you were! Page 178.

    You should tell all your readers to go out and buy a copy!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    So glad you saw it! I'm just now writing a post in response to the article because I actually disagree with the expert they quoted (surprise, surprise). Yippee!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Oh my God I LOVED LOVE LOVED that book!

  • http://www.jargonwriter.com Melissa Breau

    I'll look forward to reading the new post.
    Melissa Breau
    http://www.jargonwriter.com
    http://twitter.com/MelissaBreau
    Writer | Editor | Freelancer

  • http://www.Facebook.com/Conquest97 Michael

    Great Post Marian…I think it's definitely important to destress before bedtime…It's cool you're reading children's books…I'm actually helping a client and friend of mine promote his Children's Book online…If you'd like to check it out let me know…I”d be interested in learing more about you and what you do…

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Hey man! Shoot me an email over here: maschembari at gmail dot com
    Looking forward to hearing from you!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Just finished Percy Jackson. Thank you SO much for this recommendation, David – I'm so totally hooked!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Hey man! Shoot me an email over here: maschembari at gmail dot com
    Looking forward to hearing from you!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Just finished Percy Jackson. Thank you SO much for this recommendation, David – I'm so totally hooked!

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  • http://www.sweeneysays.com Sweeney

    The books in Pullman’s His Dark Materials trilogy are definitely my favorite children’s books and possibly my favorite books period.

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