Way to Be Thankful

by Marian Schembari on November 25, 2010

I realize writing a post on Thanksgiving morning is a) lame and b) not the best blogging decision as no one will actually read it, but I still want to take a second  to wish you all a happy HAPPY  Thanksgiving.

Turkey Day is my favorite day because it’s entirely about food and spending time with people you love. My family Thanksgivings are always epic. We have a minimum of 17 people each year and always have one or two guests we pull off the streets. For example, one year my mom, who’s big into Middle Eastern culture, invited some Jordanian friends who had never celebrated Thanksgiving before. One year she invited her Puerto Rican hairdresser. Every year an English family my parents are close with show up and now they’re part of our family tradition. This year my Kiwi boyfriend and best friend from college will be here, along with my great-aunt and her son (who I haven’t seen since I was thirteen). Now, in addition to my family of six, it’s usually madness. But in a beautifully awesome way.

Last night we made four pies and around five dozen maple cookies. This is in addition to my aunt’s famous chocolate cake, some homemade whipped cream and whatever treats our guests bring. Like I said, beautifully awesome.

As is tradition in many Thanksgiving households, we usually go around the table and say what we’re thankful for. The past few years we’ve been slack in doing this, so I’m going to use my little blog pedestal to remind myself all the great things that have happened this year. Things that couldn’t be more Thanksgiving appropriate:

I’m thankful for my family. They drive me completely insane and we’re too loud for our own good, but I adore them to bits and will miss them desperately when I move across the world next week.

I’m thankful for the ability to move across the world. Next Thursday will be the fourth time I’ve moved and the third country I’ve lived in this year alone. I’m incredibly lucky to be able to travel and experience so many things.

I’m thankful for my dog. She has a stuffed toy frog that she puts in her mouth and just runs in circles around the house, hoping one of us will chase her. We rarely do and it’s one of the funniest things I’ve ever seen.

I’m thankful for my Kiwi. It was a massive decision to move across the world for him, but in the last six months we’ve lived together we’ve experienced some pretty fabulous stuff. I couldn’t be luckier.

I’m thankful for my job. I can’t even imagine working a 9 to 5, in some office, doing what a boss tells me to do. I can make my own hours, choose my own clients and experiment with some pretty awesome projects. I am thankful every day for the ability to work for myself.

I’m thankful for my blog. The opportunities this site has presented have been so unexpected and serendipitous and beyond fun. I’m even more thankful for my readers, the relationships I’ve developed and the conversations that go on here.

Enough sap. Like I said, there will probably be two people total who will read this post today, but you should contribute anyway. Celebrate the holiday! What are you thankful for?

{Photo credit}

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...
  • Ross Brown

    Happy Thanksgiving, Marian.

    In Canada, we celebrated the holiday in October. I’m long turkeyed-out! Enjoy you day.

  • http://thetaitglobal.com Liv

    Im thankful for you lovely! Happy Thanksgiving! Hope to see you soon! xo

  • http://www.stephauteri.com Steph Auteri

    I still have 13 minutes before I have to drive to New York State to spend Thanksgiving with my in-laws! Of course I’m on my computer.

    So this is my husband’s favorite Thanksgiving tradition. Going to his aunt’s house, who makes his favorite soup: cream of mushroom. I always feel weird not being with my family on holidays, but we swap our holidays every year to satisfy everyone.

    As for what I’m thankful for: My job at YourTango, my sex column, the great projects I’ve landed in the past year, the fact that I got the chance to do my career coaching certification program, teach my very first e-course, and throw my very first event, the Cabernet my husband and I got the chance to make together, my hang gliding experience over the summer, Nutella Pound Cake, hoop dancing, my cats, my family and friends… as tough as the past year has been, it’s also had moments of greatness.

    Enjoy your Thanksgiving, Marian!

  • Elisa

    Great blog. A wonderful thanksgiving to you. I will send you my friends information that I told you about. She is family to me and will treat you like family if you contact them.

  • http://rescuedinsanity.com Kristine

    I’m reading! But then, I’m Canadian and had my Thanksgiving eons ago, so I may be the exception. I love your gratitude list. It’s helping to shake me out of my November blues.

  • Anonymous

    Hi Marian .. seems like a wonderful list – full of love – for family, friends, new and old acquaintances and now new love .. seems great to me .. enjoy the day & the time – and New Zealand .. will be beautiful. Bon chance & many blessings .. Hilary

  • http://twitter.com/KristenEJ Kristen Jeffers

    Well, I’m #7 (well comment wise)! I am most thankful for my family and my new friends I’ve gained through grad school and the nonprofit I started. I’m thankful for stability and a steady income. I’m also thankful for the gift of writing that has gotten me to where I am today. I wish you a happy and fun Thanksgiving and a good life in New Zeland!

  • http://twitter.com/emmacunningham Emma Cunningham

    No one will read the post? What about us non-Americans? :p We’re all still here!

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      Ha! That is very true. Though I guess I assume anyone outside of the States could give less of a shit about my blog ;-)

  • http://dapancost.com Dapancost

    I read your post, and on a day like to day you are allowed to be as “sappy” as you want to be. There is absolutely nothing wrong about being thankful and expressing it. Especially on a day like today. :-) Me? I’m thankful for you and your blog. You’ve given me several good ideas and thoughts to think about recently, and I appreciate it (and you). Have a wonderful Thanksgiving day. :-)

  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/7814520382689280 Marian Schembari

    Way to Be Thankful http://bit.ly/epFF4L

  • http://twitter.com/dejakester Jake Beckman

    I am thankful a great many things, the roof over head, food in the ol tum tum, clothing on my back, DH snoozing on the couch, furr babies demanding attention, living in Phoenix AZ USA, being able to watch Pumpkin Chunkin on the idiot box while family devours a “thanksgiving dinner that can’t be beat”, being self-employed, being basically healthy, the ability to sit hear on this fine day and twitter, facebook, blog or whatever, being me with all the god-given gifts I have… Things can always be better, but one only needs to watch the news to realize they can always be *much worse* and so I am thankful that they are not *much worse.* I wish all of you out there in cyber find yourself equally blessed this day.

  • http://www.domesticsluttery.com Sianmeades

    We don’t really ‘do’ Thanksgiving over here (WHY? I want turkey day!) but I couldn’t help spend a bit of the day thinking ‘I’m thankful for my parents’. I think any day that makes me think about that is a good day. Wish I had turkey too though :-D

  • http://twitter.com/dejakester/status/8632814719213570 Jake Beckman

    @MClaireStudios check out my comment on @marianschembari 's blog I am thankful or a great many of these things… http://bit.ly/fpnECW

  • http://twitter.com/mclairestudios/status/8634433460502529 Mary Claire

    Great thankful post> @marianschembari 's blog I am thankful or a great many of these things… http://bit.ly/fpnECW

  • http://twitter.com/dejakester/status/8649718338945024 Jake Beckman

    RT @MClaireStudios Great thankful post> @marianschembari 's blog I am thankful or a great many of these things… http://bit.ly/fpnECW

  • Jarek

    Heya Marian :)

    I hope you guys had a great Thanksgiving! Let Mr Kiwi know I’ll email him sometime soon, otherwise you guys have a safe trip to Auckland, I hope you have fun there :)

  • http://mycustardpie.com/ Sally2hats

    Belated happy thanksgiving Marian.

  • Christine Negroni

    Marian, Marian, Marian. Dillon does not have a stuffed frog. She has a stuffed bunny. We just call it a frog. And if you can explain that to your readers, I’ll be impressed. So thankful to have you for a daughter. God bless you in this next adventure. XXOO Mom.

  • http://www.jimvesting.com Jimvesting.com

    Great post, and Happy Thanksgiving to you too! I just discovered your blog off a friends site, I really enjoy your humorous take on things… definitely subscribing here and checking back for more :) Keep up the good work!

  • http://twitter.com/dezang Hwang, Jeong-Wook

    Thanks!

  • http://twitter.com/dezang/status/192692861551120384 Hwang, Jeong-Wook

Previous post:

Next post: