Four Years Can Change A Lot

by Marian Schembari on August 10, 2011

Let me preface this post by saying I’ve arrived in Melbourne and I may or may not be getting too old for hostels.

I happily remember my time in Europe as one of new friends, cheap accommodation and a staying social while traveling alone.

Four years later and I feel ancient. I got into Melbourne late Monday night, had to crawl over a mess of smelly teenage boys while cloaking myself in a threadbare sheet and thought, “What the hell did I do?”

That said, the two days I’ve now been in Melbourne have been an eye-opener.

First of all, I have my computer with me. I can’t tell you how much this changes things. I remember having to cram in a week’s worth of internet time on one of those massive coin-operated desktops in creepy internet cafes in Amalfi. Now I’m always connected, which is both awesome and a little sad. I’m nervous about leaving my fancy computer in a hostel so I’m lugging around multiple pounds of technology on my back while exploring this new city.

So there’s that.

There’s also the fact that this is my first trip EVER without a guide book.

Why? Well, my bosses handed me my very first iPhone before I left with the promise I’d work from the road. This little piece of metal has changed my life.

I always used to say I’d never get a smartphone. I didn’t want to be one of those people walking down a perfectly beautiful street with their eyeballs glued to yet another screen. Or, worse, I didn’t want to be one of those people who can’t look at a human face for more than ten seconds without one eyeball darting to their phone. You’re not being sneaky, I see you. We can always see you.

Travel has changed so much in just the few years since I last backpacked. I haven’t gotten lost once in two days because I have Google Maps. I haven’t had to poke my head in every single coffee shop to ask if they have wireless because I have the Free Wifi app. I don’t need a guidebook because Melbourne is as keyed in as they come and all I need to do is whip out my phone to find the best and closest things to do in my neighborhood.

I’m also ditching the hostels so I can couchsurf. While the whole concept of staying in a stranger’s house freaks me out, I can’t do a 14-bed dorm for one more night. Plus, college travelers are annoying the crap out of me and all I want is a local who can tell me the best coffee/vintage store/laneway. Double plus, I need me some friends. As excting as all of this has been and as much as I love my privacy, you’d be surprised how lonely you can get in two days.

I realize a lot of this tech existed in 2007, but not to the degree or accessibility that it does now. I don’t know how this changes me as a traveler, we’ll have to see.

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  • Kelly Dewey

    I’ve had an iPhone for coming up on two years now, and it’s scary how much it’s changed the way I travel.  It used to be that I didn’t much care about checking my email at hostels/at internet cafes when I was on the road, and did it just often enough to let my family/friends know I was still alive; now it’s the norm that I can just whip out my iPhone whenever I get back to the hostel and night and am never particularly unconnected.  But in spite of living and working in Germany for going on two years now, I haven’t ever done more than a couple weeks of travel at a stretch — maybe I would enjoy being more connected if I were on the road for longer.  Good luck with everything in Australia, and hope that getting away from Auckland makes things better for you!  I’m rooting for you from Frankfurt.

  • http://thisexactly.blogspot.com kelly

    I’ve had an iPhone for coming up on two years now, and it’s scary how much it’s changed the way I travel.  It used to be that I didn’t much care about checking my email at hostels/at internet cafes when I was on the road, and did it just often enough to let my family/friends know I was still alive; now it’s the norm that I can just whip out my iPhone whenever I get back to the hostel and night and am never particularly unconnected.  But in spite of living and working in Germany for going on two years now, I haven’t ever done more than a couple weeks of travel at a stretch — maybe I would enjoy being more connected if I were on the road for longer.  Good luck with everything in Australia, and hope that getting away from Auckland makes things better for you!  I’m rooting for you from Frankfurt.

    • http://thisexactly.blogspot.com kelly

      Agh, double post!  Rookie error.

      • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

        Haha, deleted :)

        I can totally relate to your comment though. I never really gave a shit about checking my email on the road until now. I can’t imagine feeling so unplugged for the two months I’ll be gone so having the phone is definitely more a positive than a negative.

        Thanks for the well wishes! I can use all the rooting I can get.

        • Lucy Smith

          Oh, Marian, be careful of saying you can use all the rooting you can get – especially if a lot of Kiwis and Aussies are going to be reading this blog! You might get offers that are not of the kind you had in mind…I’m laughing immaturely ;-)

          As for smartphones, I’m emphatic that I’ll never own one (until ‘dumb phones’ have gone the way of rotary dials) and certainly would put Google Maps away in most cases when travelling. Some of the most wonderful surprises and discoveries when you’re somewhere unfamiliar come when you get lost – that little residential neighbourhood, that little piazza, that fantastic coffee shop, that market. Just getting from A to B is soooo not in the spirit of exploring!

          • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

            LOL – I have no idea what that means, but it cracks me up that “rooting” can be dirty. My imagination is running wild ;-)

            I NEVER thought I’d get one and am trying really hard not to be “that person” who has one. Still not sure how I feel about it, but it has made a lot of aspects about my trip easier. Especially with couch surfing – it helps that I can be connected for when I’m sending out requests and trying to get a roof over my head. I definitely wouldn’t be able to do that otherwise! But I here what you’re saying – getting from A to B is not what this is about, especially this trip I’m on. Thanks for the reminder, I hope I don’t forget that.

  • http://www.emmacunningham.ca Emma Cunningham

    Couch surfing creeps me out a little – please be safe and always let somebody know where you’re staying!

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      It creeped me out too at first, but there are good ways to keep yourself safe and I’m enjoying it much more than hostels. Which, to be honest, are filled with more opportunities for danger/theft/etc. I’m being good about checking references, only staying with women etc. The only problem is really not knowing where you’re going to stay a few days down the road!

  • http://parisianfeline.wordpress.com Tatiana

    Oh. I think the one thing about having a laptop is that it’s so heavy. One of my greatest dreams is to travel somewhere without my laptop, using a journal instead. Sometimes I’d prefer something like an iPad in its place which has a lot of the same functions at half the weight and size of a Macbook. But I suppose an iphone is an even smaller version of an iPad! So- technology. It gives me mixed feelings about always being plugged in. So nerve-wracking I feel like. 

    But – good luck with the couch surfing. I stayed in a hostel in rome and enjoyed the girls I roomed with. But it’s very dorm like and can be aggravating for people who aren’t in that mindset/lifestyle anymore.  

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      It’s the worst! I’m already having bad neck pain and I woke up this morning with such a sore back from lugging around my computer bag on my shoulder all day yesterday. This is probably not the healthiest way to travel ;-)

      Am loving the freedom the iPhone gives me, but there are some things you just can’t do with it. And those “some things” are the work projects that are currently funding my trip. So I’m just going to have to deal!

      I both love and hate hostels. They were great at 20 but this time around I’m just not feeling it. That said, I may just be staying in the wrong hostels.

  • http://twitter.com/marianschembari/status/101277198274662400 Marian Schembari

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  • http://twitter.com/erinbeeweave Erin Maurer

    I am on the fence about being so plugged in. I feel like I need to be, msot of the time…but with traveling, sometimes I would think that getting lost and poking into random cafes would be an awesome way to discover the city.

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      I am too. Part of what made my last solo trip so special was getting lost and stumbling across something great. Or getting lost and being so incredible proud of myself for finding my way back again.

      That said, being so plugged in has meant I’ve had 3 coffee dates in the 3 days I’ve been here. A country I’m not familiar with is suddenly accessible. There are both downsides and upsides. This trip won’t be worse, but I can already tell it will be different in ways I probably can’t even imagine yet.

  • http://twitter.com/alexisgrant/status/101389871884677122 Alexis Grant

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  • http://www.alishasanvicens.com Alisha Sanvicens

    No turning back once you get an iphone! And I’m with you on being too old for hostels. Hope you have fun in Melbourne, I hear it’s a great city. 

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      I know, it’s crazypants. Had no idea how much easier my life could be!

      And so far I’m in love – probably the coolest city I’ve ever been in.

  • http://twitter.com/dejakester/status/101400449726431232 Jake Beckman

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  • http://www.jargonwriter.com Melissa Breau

    Hey Lady,
    It’s been a while since we’ve chatted, but I haven’t stopped reading. Just want you to know that I’m thinking about you all the way on the other side of the world. From where I’m standing, you seem incredibly brave embracing this new adventure. I hope you enjoy it! Take lots of pictures for those of us stuck back here in the states. 

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      Thanks lady :) Always nice to read your comments and support!

  • http://UncorneredMarket.com Audrey

    I feel fortunate that we’ve been traveling long enough to remember what it was like before laptops, uber-connectedness, iPhone apps that tell us where we are and where to eat, and all that. While I do believe that technology has opened up so many doors – heck, it allows us to run and manage a website and business from the road – I also like to put the smartphone away sometimes and just get lost. 

    As for couchsurfing, I hope you have a great experience. We’ve only been guests a couple of times, but we hosted our first guests a few weeks ago – a couple from Iran – which was a great time. The community is really dedicated to the mission of exchange. Look forward to hearing how it goes – it will likely be much nicer than the dorm :)

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      I agree! It’s nice to have experienced both sides of the coin. I can’t say I have a preference, as long as the spirit of travel and adventure is never lost.

      So glad couchsurfing has been a good experience for you! I just surfed my first couch last night and it was pretty awesome. Met and had dinner with a couple I never would have met otherwise. And we had a lot more in common than I expected, which was just a great experience. And it was nice to have some peace and quiet from the dorm for once!

  • http://twitter.com/driftingfocus/status/101549280719941632 Kelsey Freeman

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  • http://www.sweeneysays.com Nicole

    I like Audrey’s comment because sometimes those moments where you get lost can be the highlights of your trip.  That said, it is kind of insane to think about how quickly technology is changing all of this and making that more of an active choice.  If I decide I really want to get to X, Y, and Z places today and also I need to contact 4 people for work then I can do that and tomorrow when I have nothing to do I can leave it all at home and go get lost.  You can still choose to ditch the technology in your travels but the point is that you have a choice.

    • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

      I agree 100%. I’m still on the fence about if all this tech is good or bad, but I think the “bad” is more about adjusting to change than anything else. I love what you say about having a choice though, you are so right. And right now? I feel like I haven’t been missing anything on my travels so there’s nothing to complain about.

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