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Do you know what I’m bored of? Social media bogs that interview people who are in  social media. Not that they’re not useful, but I find the information just teaches us out to blog about blogging.

What if you write a blog about bird watching? Or hula hooping? Or cupcakes?

What if you write a blog about, say, Brooklyn?

Then this is the interview for you.

(Well, it’s for you if you want advice from real people using social media and not boring “experts” like yours truly…)

Fucked in Park Slope is a ridiculously popular blog that features laugh-out-loud posts and the kind of snark that makes Mama proud. The second I saw it I knew I had to harass talk to editor Erica Reitman for my brand-new series interviewing folks who ROCK at blogging. And guess what? They don’t blog about blogging.

So without further ado, my new internet bestie Erica gives you insight into FIPS, Twitter, managing more than one blog and the benefits of not blogging for a living…

The Basics

First of all, who are you?

I’m just some 30-something, smart aleck-y chick who tells it like it is [my kind of girl!]. I never really believed I could be a writer (and if I’m being really honest, I’m *still* surprised by the fact that anyone actually cares about what I have to say), but I discovered through blogging that I CAN ACTUALLY DO THIS SHIT. Well kinda… it’s still pretty friggin’ hard. I’m married to a cool dude and we have a cool Basset Hound named Oliver.

How did you get into blogging? What prompted FIPS and Design Blahg?

I started FIPS two years ago with a friend who also lives in our leafy, Brooklyn neighborhood. Not sure if your readers have ever heard of Park Slope, but some crazy-ass stuff goes on down here: People bring their babies to bars, everyone works in this big Food Coop and parents get into days long fights over the assumption that a navy blue hat might belong to a boy. We felt like the opportunity was ripe to start our blog that took on the neighborhood in a more bad ass way. Four hours after we posted our first blog entry, we had been picked up by all of the big NYC blogs and the rest is history.

I started Design Blahg this March because I’m obsessed with interior design, and felt like there was, again, a void in that world that I needed to fill with a snarky, curse-y, funny blog that also happened to be about design. That one has been slower in terms of traffic and popularity, but it was a good reminder that stuff ain’t always so easy when you’re starting out.

Why two blogs? How do you function by keeping them both up? AND three Twitter accounts?

While I love FIPS, I can’t exactly convince you with a straight face that I’m passionate about Park Slope news, or ranting about the Stroller Nazi. I love design and read all of the blogs out there, but just felt no one was quite doing it like I’d do it. So, voila, Design Blahg.

The audiences for both sites are so completely different, I needed separate Twitter accounts. And believe it or not, I actually have FIVE (though one is not active anymore and I barely use the fourth one).

Are these sites your full-time work?

BWHHAHHHHHAAAAHHHHHA. Um, no.

I’m a Marketing Director at Squarespace, which is a rad web publishing platform that you should all sign up for (use code ERICA for 10% off!). Really, its all sorts of fab. And I can say that because I came to the company AFTER becoming a gigantic fan . Plus, they pay me way better than blogging.

How do you monetize the blogs?

In version 2.0 of FIPS we’re thinking more  about monetizing. We’ve always had a steady stream of advertisers, so I’m excited to see what’s gonna go down! I’ve also started some side gigs, like doing singles events (check out BK Hookup for more on that). On Design Blahg I starting working with Carbonads, and so far so good!

Do you have staff or is it just you? Contributors?

I’m lucky enough to have a bunch of great writers who help me run both blogs. Thing are getting so busy with FIPS though, I might be at the point where I actually need to hire an editor. Its amazing to have the extra help and our writers all rule my face EXTREMELY hard.

Some “Rapid Fire” Qs Y’all Should Read Because You Can Learn Things

Favorite social media site:

Twitter, twitter and more Twitter. I’m not sure I’d have any friends without it. I’ve gotten soooooo much from my involvement with Twitter, if nothing good ever happened again, I’d still be ahead of the game.

Any cool things that have cropped up because of social media?

Here’s a short list:

  • A freelance writing gig for MTV
  • A real job at Squarespace
  • A real job teaching blogging at Mediabistro here in NYC
  • A million billion cool friends
  • Countless biz opportunities and connections
  • Another side biz
  • MONEY
  • Speaking opportunities at conferences
  • Getting free shit (from people who love/read my blog)
  • Connections with people I would have been terrified to connect with on my own (politicians, journalists, and even some pseudo celebs).

Best Twitter tip (generic, bull-shit, jargon advice is greatly discouraged):

When starting off, build up a week or so’s worth of tweets BEFORE you follow anyone. Yes, you will feel like you are talking to yourself, but tweet like you have thousands of followers and drop all sorts of juicy twittage. Then you can let loose and start following people. Cause if you follow me, and I go back to your profile and there’s nothing there, I’m just Audi 5000.

Best Facebook tip:

Ditch it for Twitter.

Best blogging tip:

Take a half a day on the weekend and schedule some posts so you can lighten your load during the week. Also use Link Within or Outbrain. Since I added that to my blog I’ve increased page views by a kajillion.

How do you learn about social media?

I follow 200+ blogs in my RSS reader and I work Twitter like its my job.

Worst part about blogging:

Think of your available spare time as the water that comes out of the kitchen sink and your blog as the drain. All the water in your kitchen sink eventually goes into the drain, right? Any questions?

Best part about blogging:

The fact that I can go back and look at TWO SOLID YEARS of posting every single day. That’s proof I actually am a writer. BOOYAH.

So there you have it, folks. Erica is my new internet love and you should follow her on Twitter here. And here. And here. Enjoy!

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Conversation Starter: Blog Cliques & Online Annoyances

by Marian Schembari on October 6, 2010

The best part of this blog is what’s happening in the comments section, so I thought every week or month (or whenever I feel like it, really) I would pose an open-ended question to you all so we can share our successes, trials, tribulations, annoyances and favorite tips. Kind of like an online forum, but you don’t have to pay for it or sign up for anything.

I want to kick off this series by talking about online annoyances. What’s your least favorite part of the online world? What is that one thing, that every time you see it or read about it, your panties automatically twist up in a giant ball? What would you desperately like to change?

My biggest annoyance? Blog cliques. Oh. Em. Gee. I may not be the only blogger not going to Blog World, but I sure feel like it. I also feel like if I did go I’d feel left out cuz all the other Big Important Bloggers have no idea who I am and I could care less about licking their collective ass (read this awesome post by The Redhead on popularity).

As you’re well aware, I have plenty of annoyances. Most of my posts actually revolve around  a bitchfest, but today I’d like to open up the floor to you.

Share your thoughts, pet peeves and hard core bitching in the comments below so we can all feel a little bit better about ourselves.

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What Your Twitter Numbers Say About You, part 1

by Marian Schembari on August 3, 2010

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The mass of Twitter critiques I’ve been doing this past week has been interesting in terms of the number of questions I’ve received about follower numbers and how users are perceived based on those numbers, what’s  a good follower to followee ratio, etc etc.

It’s been almost a year now since I sent my first tweet and there’s something funny about numbers. People say they don’t care, but we all do. Maybe we don’t want the same numbers, but we all judge each other on them and want certain ones for ourselves. Some of us want to look important, some of us just want to update our friends. Some want to be engaging to a select few while others simply want a broadcast platform.

Below I’ve outlined the most popular number trends I’ve come across with initial impressions we all get. Don’t lie, you think it too:

The Celebrity

The Celebrity has no need to follow back (or tweet, for that matter – this particular celeb hasn’t tweeted once) because they automatically accumulate followers and are added to lists. Lists of people waiting with bated breath for that first word.

The Autofollower

The Autofollower is a tricky one to spot – you need an unhealthy amount of Twitter in your life to grasp the subtle traits. TAs are sneaky. You think they’re way more popular than they are just by looking at the numbers, but do you see the ratio of “following” to “followers”? That’s because they unfollow anyone that isn’t following them and vice versa – unfortunately this builds up a lot of spam. Another way to spot TAs is by their lists. Quality tweeters are listed at around one/tenth the amount of their number of followers (should be 718 for this tweeter). Read this awesome post for an alternate opinion on autofollowing.

The Online Celeb

Online celebs are popular like “real” celebrities, but they understand the importance of engagement. Some use autofollow programs, but most don’t need to look important. They already are. You can spot these guys by their high follower and list counts and lower followee numbers. The number of people they follow is usually impressive but only a small percentage of the people who are following their every word.

The Popular Blogger

Not big enough to be a celebrity, nowhere near small enough to be a newbie, The Popular Blogger is picky and likes to look that way. That, or they can’t possibly keep up with the demand (come back tomorrow for tips on managing your followers).

The Tentative Newbie

Tentative Newbies are easy to spot based on low numbers of both followers and followees. They almost always have less followers than the latter and are rarely listed. If you check out their Twitter stream, you’ll see infrequent tweets and engagement with the same two people over and over again.

This particular TN is actually going about the right way. You’ll see many newbies follow a thousand people at once, hoping for more followers, which is what I call….

The Desperate Newbie

I was The Desperate Newbie only 12 months ago. You’d think the more people you follow  at once the more people will follow you, right? Wrong. Follow only 5-10 new people every day and engage with at least one of them (that’s advice I always give to my consulting clients). Size matter, baby, and when people see you follow so many tweeters without enough followers of you’re own, you’ll look a little desperate. No one likes desperate.

The…?

I wasn’t going to put my own numbers in this post, but figured that would be a cop-out, so here you go. I don’t think I have enough followers to be a Popular Blogger and I’d like to think I follow too many people for that anyway. I do, however, realize there’s a discrepancy.

Why is that? I get overwhelmed easily. Tomorrow I’m offering tomorrow specific tips on how to combat overwhelm, but nobody’s perfect.

I also recently did a Twitter cleanup and unfollowed people who hadn’t tweeted in the past week and users I just never ever engage with. I’m left with a good chunk of people I recognize, read, know and/or like to look at (I’m looking at you @SamJonesParry). Basically, I follow someone if there’s regular engagement and it doesn’t matter if they’re another blogger, random doctor or friend of a friend. We chat, I follow.

So what kind of tweeter are you? What kind of tweeter do you want to be?

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This week’s episode of Critique My Profile features Desirai Labrada (@Desirai), a Digital Media Designer, artist and all around cool chick who’s looking to land more freelance clients by using Twitter… Check out the video and my tips for her below:

Some actionable tasks for Desirai:

Bio/Background

  • It’s good in that it tells us who you are and what you do, but it’s a little cluttered. Also keep in mind that most of us won’t know what those acronyms mean.
  • Pair down your bio a little bit so that the important bits are obvious and we’re not overwhelmed with too much info.
  • Gorgeous background! It’s so smart for artists and designers to show off their skills with a customized Twitter background.

Tweets:

  • You obviously know what you’re doing and have a good amount of  designer-relevant links and tweets. Keep it up!
  • Instead of using the retweet button, spend 60 seconds following these guidelines:
    • Include the name of the original author as well as the person you’re RTing (only if the names are different obviously). You want to give credit where it’s due.
    • Include a comment or question with the RT. This piques curiosity and invites people to participate in the discussion.
  • Get followers involved in your work. Show us designs your working on, ask our opinion on tiny details to help you work better and make us feel like we’re useful :)
    • Remember people are visual and your career perfect for including links to Twitpic images – anything from art that inspires you or designs you’d like to replicate. You have so many options!

What do you guys think? Do you have more tips for Desirai? Leave your comments below! And if you want me to critique your profile, leave your Twitter handle in the comments.

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This week’s episode of Critique My Profile features Shayna Leah (@ShaynaLeahK), a blogger over at Life: Forward. Shayna didn’t give specifics, so I focused on how she can kick some life into her tweets by adding personal touches. Check out the video and my tips for her below:

Some actionable tasks for Shayna:

Bio/Background

  • Short and sweet explanation – good!
  • I’d like to hear more about you. What are your passions? What’s your day job? Your bio has the potential to be a little catchier.

Photo

  • Point deduction on the cartoon avatar! Two things:
    • I can’t tell you what a difference it makes to visualize the person with whom you’re connecting. It goes a long way in maintaining a relationship.
    • If you ever go to events or meet a blog friend in person, you want them to recognize you!

Tweets

  • Cut it out with the obsessive hashtagging. It dilutes the message and looks spammy.
    • Instead of writing “#women #bloggers #marieclaire #whattowear”, write, “I take a look at Marie Claire’s fatshion blogger.” See the difference? You can still include those keywords, but it’s more effective in the form of a sentence.
  • Stop doubling up on tweets!
  • Where are your thoughts? Spew some opinions, baby, your niche totally calls for it.
  • If you’re lost about something to say, take a snippet from a blog post and rewrite it as a tweet. I went through your site and picked out two examples:
    • Only thing scarier than a man spouting reasons why women aren’t entitled to equal opportunities is when those arguments come from a woman.
    • @Newsweek said “There’s something creepy about a made-to-order child. Even a pretty one.” Is that any different than how we already behave?
  • Keep in mind that people do care about your day and tweeting about stuff that seems mundane (i.e. “cleaning out my inbox”) makes you relatable. Don’t do this too often, though.

Alright guys, what do you think? Am I being too harsh on Shayna? Do you have any suggestions for her? Leave your comments below!

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